Give me what I want!

Every now and then I see something that I want. I go to a restaurant and I want good service. I want A drink before my other one runs out. I really like it when things go my way and everyone else is on board. You know, we are always right aren’t we? As Americans we love the consumer mentality. We love to take and take and take. When it comes to your faith are you a consumer or contributor. Over the last week or month or year would you say that you have complained more then you give? If so you may have fallen into the trap of consumerism where everything is all about you. 

Don’t fall into the trap of consumerism. A consumer-driven society can cause Christians to idolize perfection. When this happens, they expect flawless worship, sermons, pastors, staff and even relationships. Inevitably, when aspects of our Christian faith do cause disappointment (and they will), our constant cultural experience of being the consumer — on the receiving end of commercials, advertising campaigns, and target-driven media that tells us the customer is always right — causes us to feel entitled to something better.
So we respond by complaining, demanding change, boycotting, or even abandoning any part of Christianity’s existence that is letting us down.
Before we know it we’ve left our small group, are constantly critiquing the church services, and eventually skipping out on church.
To make things worse, Christian leaders often fall into the trap of trying to cater to this consumerist mindset. (I am guilty of this)  Instead of Christ-centered goals, they focus on growth, popularity, efficiency, and attaining influence and power.

But Christians must remember that Jesus wasn’t that popular, that he promoted powerlessness, and that he was frustratingly inefficient. In fact, He was sacrificial, humble, giving, and forgiving — not exactly valued character attributes in today’s society.
The best way of being Christ-centered is to actually emulate the life of Jesus. Are the Fruits of the Spirit — love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness — being reflected in your churches, small groups and personal life?

Do you love your neighbor? Do you love your enemies? Are you taking care of the poor, helping the sick, empowering the broken people, fighting for justice, and reaching out to those on the fringes of society? Because these things are what Christians do. Not consumers.
It’s a backwards way of living, because throughout our lives we’ve been told as consumers that we’re the center of attention, that we’re the most important, and that we should look after ourselves first and foremost.
Contrarily, Jesus instructs us to do the exact opposite: to prioritize others first.
Throughout Christian communities we hear the expression “be counter-cultural.” Within our Westernized existence, this means not consuming.
Instead, try giving. Try sacrificing, serving, helping, protecting, helping, creating, and loving. Although these character traits are increasingly rare and devalued, they are what Christ-followers are meant to do.

Be a contributor!

  • Christians encourage, consumers complain.
  • Christians empower, consumers criticize.
  • Christians sacrifice, consumers hoard.
  • Christians forgive, consumers hate.
  • Christians work together, consumers compete.  
  • Christians volunteer, consumers take.
  • Christians generously give, consumers buy.
  • Christians serve, consumers obtain.
  • Christians save, consumers waste.

2 thoughts on “Give me what I want!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s